Some years ago, when my life was
exceptionally busy and my head was literally spinning with ideas, I discovered a
mode of operation that worked well for me. After the busy Christmas rush, and
into the lull of the New Year, I'd work on researching, planning, and creating
for the following Christmas. This has included gathering ideas for gifts,
packaging, home-made cards, decorations or events to attend. I've collected
recipes for baked goods or for new dishes to include in holiday meals.
I have a
small storage box, which I pull out each year right after Thanksgiving that is
stocked with re-purposed gift tags, cards, small bags and boxes for baked
goods, gift card holders, and any printed ideas I've found that I'd like to
use.
If you are a do-it-yourselfer, now is the time to make those plans. After-holiday
sales are a great way to stock up on needed items for the following year.
Because we are attempting to be much more
"green" in everything we do, I find this a good time to work on making
more progress in this area. Excess packaging is the most difficult to deal with
ecologically, but there is a lot of information out there - it's just a matter
of looking for/finding it and then putting it into practice.
This takes time
(and a lot of determination) to sort out and consistently do, so phasing it
into your life gradually is the way to go, I think. Determine now how you can
reduce your waste during the next holiday.
Once you have your top couple of priorities,
it's time to get crackin'. Making time to connect with those near and dear can
be a challenge, but it's ever so important. Again, there is no set way to do
this, so do whatever works for you and the others.
Perhaps have a small
gathering in your home or, if that is too difficult, plan to meet somewhere
else. Coffee time is nice, but so is a lunch, breakfast or brunch. Beware of
gift exchanges - they tend to "ramp up" over time and can become
excessive. At one breakfast I attend we used to exchange tree ornaments, but
decided we all had enough of those. We now bring gloves, hats, socks, etc. to
be donated to a local charity. At a monthly coffee with three friends, we
gather mostly to visit and share a home-made goody, only occasionally gifting
each other with something simple, yet meaningful.
Write those letters, make
those phone calls, send those emails (with those pictures), bake cookies with
those grandkids, visit that nursing home, make that apology... Just DO IT!
If you want to change something about the way
you spend your holiday, now is the time to decide what, why, and how. Of course
this may need to be discussed with others in your family, but if you feel
strongly enough about it then don't hesitate to do so. Reaching a consensus can
be tricky, but at least they'll know your feelings and who knows - maybe
they're ready to make some changes, too. Again, perhaps the actual changes are
in the future, but those first steps need to begin sometime. Sooner is better
than later.
Tired of heavy family dramas that leave you frazzled and exhausted?
Plan to spend the next holiday somewhere else. Finding cooking that large feast
alone too much? Ask for more help, dine out, order in, or scale back. Spending
waaay to much? Cut back on the number of gifts, set a price limit, or create
your own. Cut back on the number of activities/parties you attend, add a
concert or play to the mix, attend a church service, volunteer at a homeless
shelter, or stay home and relax. Decide what needs to change and DO IT!
"The Journey of a thousand miles
begins with a single step."
Lao Tzu
I operate with lists. While I often have
more on my list than I can do in a day, it does help me visually set down what
to do and in what order. The order doesn't always matter, but in some cases it
really does. Having daily, weekly, and monthly goals helps and I'm constantly
amazed at all that can be accomplished one small step at a time.
Or, as my granddaughter put it "Now this one will be known as the cracked ginger bread man.." And my grandson added: "And this one is headless, and this one is one-leg... but they all taste really good!"
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I'm still following the jeans thread and eagerly awaiting the final reveal!
ReplyDeleteI found your blog through Sherrie's blog. I think your idea of starting in January for the following year is a splendid one! I plan on doing this and thank you for the idea. I am also working on a blue jean project which I will be posting pictures of soon.
ReplyDeleteas always ladybug...wonderful & inspiring post!!
ReplyDeleteBE merry...all year long! *cheers* to 2013!