A great variety of birds visit our feeders and over the years we have
learned to identify most of them. Often, we don't even need to see them, as we
know their calls. (Those who know me well know that I also often answer them!)
These include the robin, chickadee, nuthatch, grosbeak, junco, Song and White-capped
sparrow. Four types of woodpeckers live in the neighborhood and each of these -
the Downy, Hairy, Pileated, and Northern Flicker - has its own unique call and
drumming sound. The Pileated and Flicker, especially, announce their arrival
with loud piercing cries. The sharp-shinned hawk, always on the lookout for a
smaller bird meal, makes the high pitched sound common to hawks. Most of these
we know by heart; others we need to look up year after year as we hear them
less often or for one reason or another don't remember them. The bird community
we live in is a very busy and noisy place!
At Family Camp this year, as other years, I asked the kids which animal in
the woods is the loudest. As always, some children threw out their best guesses
- lion, bear, dog, dinosaur... Some, either because they know me and have heard
this question before (Caroline) or think it through carefully before answering,
correctly shout "WE are"
And how right they are - I don't know about volume, but in terms of pure
constant chatter, we humans must surely win hands down. This is not necessarily
a bad thing, but as I remind the children: "Our ears don't work as well when our mouth is busy..."
During my growing-up years, lots of
visiting took place at our family dinner table. Dad spoke of business, politics
and “the early days” when his family homesteaded in eastern Montana. Mom boldly
gave her opinions on current events, related tales of her girlhood, and shared
family news. I chattered on and on about whatever concerned me at the time. We
felt free to speak, but were expected to listen in return. It was a lesson
well-learned that has served me well.
In today's world, listening is more
important than ever. With multi-tasking and electronic gadgetry now a given,
how often do we give others our undivided attention? When someone is speaking
and another is texting, plugged in to an iPod, typing on a laptop, answering a
cell phone, or watching TV, what is actually being heard?
How often is there direct eye contact, quiet listening, and appropriate response as opposed to eyes directed elsewhere, mind on other things such as formulating one's own agenda that may have nothing to do with the current conversation?
The political climate is equally
interesting and the same things apply. We each have our own view and opinion
and in many cases feel compelled to share them. Again, this is not necessarily
a bad thing, but how often do we actually listen to the other points of view? It's
good to remember that hearing and LISTENING are not the same things...
How often is there direct eye contact, quiet listening, and appropriate response as opposed to eyes directed elsewhere, mind on other things such as formulating one's own agenda that may have nothing to do with the current conversation?
My
dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to
speak and slow to become angry, for man's anger does not bring about the
righteous life that God desires. James
1:19-20
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