They say that ignorance is bliss, but is it really?
Children look to the adults in their lives to show them how to deal with life
and all that it throws at one. Not acknowledging nor talking about problems is
really not dealing with them at all and is of no help to those around us who
care.
For when it finally becomes your turn to deal with something
"unthinkable" - and your turn will come, I assure you - you
will probably have no idea how to do that. Of course no one deals perfectly
with the bumps in life's road, but even admitting the hurt, frustrations, and
feelings of loss and inadequacy is better than silence. We are all imperfect
beings, and helping each other through the rough times is of immeasurable value.
I now know that our extended family is a mixed bag,
made up of individuals who struggle with all kinds of issues. As a group, we
have experienced estrangement, separation, divorce, addiction, depression, personality
disorders, mental illness, homosexuality, dementia, prison time, joblessness and
homelessness... For we are, after all, a
part of the human family. If you have not had to deal with any of these things,
you are indeed fortunate. Going through, or helping someone else get through,
rough times can either steel and embitter us OR make us more compassionate. The choice
is ours.
In this season of darkness, many are hurting.
Family, financial, physical and mental problems weigh even heavier on those
afflicted amidst the bright lights, hustle, bustle and good cheer that others
seem to enjoy. With today a blur and the future unimaginable, many see little
hope, if any. Those of us who are able try to offer some measure of help with
encouragement, shelter, food, employment, money, and gifts, but often the need
runs deeper still. And so we simply BE THERE - in thought, prayer, service, and
person. God fulfills His promises through us - lest we forget:
I
have no idea how to reach it
nor
even how to begin
to
wander in its direction,
for
my heart is numb
and
my feet are leaden.
Often
I cannot see it,
yet I
know it is there.
Silent
within the tumult,
it
beckons me still,
for I
feel its faint echo
somewhere
deep within
longing
for its warmth
and
aching for its comfort,
yet
lost and alone
Somehow
it nourishes,
sustains
me to a degree,
while
taunting and urging
to
face in its direction,
take
that first small, faltering step
even
as I teeter on the brink
of
all that is feared and unknown.
All
around is darkness -
cold,
and comforting in its way.
But I
am not a child of darkness;
I do
not dwell here willingly.
Somehow
I must pass through,
come
out on the other side
into
the warmth and light.
I
cannot ask, but you must know -
Reach
out and touch me,
though
I am stiff and ice-cold.
We
will hold hands and walk
through
the misery together
toward
that flickering light
that
offers a ray of HOPE.
and your hope will not be cut off.
Proverbs 23:18
...we who have fled to take hold of the hope
offered to us
may be greatly encouraged.
We have this hope as an anchor for the soul,
firm and
secure.
Hebrews 6:18-19
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